Internet Love Story

One night, I was just flirting around with a friend in a chat club (yes, one fear had been overcome), not paying too much attention to the other conversations, when someone else started directing questions my way. After not noticing her first few questions, she SCREAMED one at me. I think we all know how it is.....those damn caps lock always made us look and read! The friend I had gone to the chat club with originally decided to call it a night, world time zones had intervened, so I quickly scrolled back to read and answer this "new" person's questions. It was so strange reading those questions, they were so familiar......so me??? It was soon established that she was from my country, although from another state, we just clicked.
I think we spoke for about 4hrs that first night, but it seemed like only a few minutes, time flies when you're having fun......as they say. We soon formed a close friendship where we talked about everything without any fears or reservations. Weeks went by and we never ran out of things to say to each other, my heart strings were playing the most beautiful melodic tunes you can imagine.
Neither one of us having cybersex before, we just embraced each other and fell lovingly onto our cyber-bed letting this moment sweep us on a wave of passion. The fireworks we created that night lasted until the well after the midnight oil burned up. It was certainly a night that both of us would not forget, it was truly wonderful. It also propelled us to wanting to create the scenario in real life!
Christmas was soon upon us and being in different states and having family commitments, both of us were quite busy, she was also going to visit her relatives in another state, so our time together online was put on hold. A week passed and my heart felt like it was slowly being put through a meat mincer, she was my air and I was slowly suffocating through lack of her. Fortunately it was a hectic time workwise and the days passed quickly, it was just the nights I had to deal with. Then she phoned me at work...........my heart convulsed like it was being defibrillated, butterflies were fluttering inside me bouncing off my stomach wall, my hands shaking as we arranged to meet--SHE WAS IN MY STATE!!!!!!!!
Walking into that bar, through that sea of faces and knowing straight away who she was, I'd never seen her pic before, but she was how I pictured her in my dreams. That first kiss was surely a taste of heaven, the moulding of our bodies as we held each other tightly was on a higher plateau. For the next two days we were entwined in each other, there was no world like this, no wars, no news, no problems..........just us.
A few months later she moved down here, about 20mins from where I live, we often talk about "our good old days" and how we both hold it close in our hearts, we are best friends and share time, even if we have both started other relationships...........lovers come and go, what we have is much better.


"Anonymous"

Bizarre Date

Mr. Cling
Posted on November 1, 2003
CJ wrote: I'd never tried online dating before, but all those ads for lavalife and match.com gets a girl thinking. I'd just been through a divorce and decided I needed to have a little fun again. I joined up and got lots of responses, even though I didn't put my picture up on the net (for privacy reasons.) So, I met this one guy who was cute, a med school student at USC, and my age- 25. He sounded really cool, but over the phone had slightly geeky humor. We went out on a date- met at Starbuck's and went on to dinner. It was nice. So, we went out 2 days later to a club with 2 of my friends. This little insecure jerk would not stop grabbing me and trying to shove his tongue down my throat all night. Can we say needy and clingy??? I'm also a smoker and he's not. I'm respectful of non- smokers, so I walk a few feet away to have my nicotene. However, this jackass followed me, begged me not to smoke- to kiss him instead and FORCEFULLY swatted the cigarette out of my hand, breaking my watch!! This was all before we get in the club. Inside, he was jealous of my friends (my best girl friend and a gay friend) and kept trying to corner me and have me to himself. He couldn't dance (even though he went on and on about how good he was,) and had terrible breath. I had enough and after the club, he took me home. He begged me to come up and "cuddle" with him and to just kiss him. I was so annoyed because he kept trying to grab me and I literally had to wrestle my way free from his grip to have some space. I told him some excuse like I was drunk, etc... and went inside. It was too bad because he was cute- just a complete dumbass. This guy had almost no social skills. I will definitely be more careful of who I meet online.

Beware Of Sweet Talkers

Tammy wrote: I met this guy on line, he was everything I was looking for in a man. Boy was I wrong, I opened up to him on how I was used by men in the past and he used this info to do just that!!The last visit I had with him, he was talking marriage and family plans telling me how much he loved me and that I was the one he wanted. I get home and he gets this cold shoulder with me, I ask him what's wrong and he tells me to leave him alone that it's over. I go around for days hurt and heartbroken, telling my friends I dont understand what happened. And than the big bomb! I e-mailed him telling him I can't go on with my life not knowing what happened. He told me he had other women he was writing and was going to be going out with one the following weekend!! I was soo hurt. I'm just glad I didn't marry the @@$*^^@ before finding out!!!

Internet Dating

A few short years ago, the common assumption was that anyone who'd turn to their computer for love had to be a geeky, pathetic loser who couldn't get a date. More recently, with the Internet changing everything from the way we shop to the way we find driving directions, cyberspace has become the hottest pick-up joint on the planet.
These stories prove not only that normal, stable everyday folks are using the internet to find romance, but that sometimes... there's still a lot of freaks out there.